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December 31, 2013

3 Words and a Song

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P1000183I like the idea of not making New Year’s Resolutions that I won’t stick to.  They never seem to last and I just end up feeling like somewhat of a failure so when I read about selecting key words to focus on during the year a few years ago I was on board. The originator was blogger Chris Brogan who is somewhat of a legend in the blogger world.  When I read about his idea for the first time I loved it and jumped on the Chris Brogan bandwagon for choosing words for the upcoming year.  If you want to read what my previous words were you can click on the following years to see what I chose for each of those years.

2013

2012

2011

2014 is just around the corner and I find myself thinking once again about choosing words that I can incorporate in my life on a daily basis.  I may not have it all figured out but then–does anyone?   I had a difficult time choosing my words and I have thought about it a lot the past couple of months. This is what I came up with.1388438845-63a839d3-a0a4

Consistency—Sometimes I find that I am very inconsistent and irregular in my actions.  I claim to be on track and disciplined but I fail miserably on a daily basis of being consistent in things that matter.  In 2014 I will strive to be more consistent in my spiritual and devotional life, my healthy and exercise life and in my personal relationships.

Compassion—While I am indeed a compassionate person this is an area that still needs to be honed and refined so that not only am I compassionate to those I know but to offer up that same compassion to those who may cross my path in my daily life.   I do not think one can ever possess too much compassion.

Simplify—I definitely see the need in my life to simplify and skinny things down a bit both in possessions and attitude.   It is a lofty goal for someone with “collections” and “stuff” but if I simply start taking steps towards simplifying that will make me very happy.

I also always pick a song for the year. This was one that I heard on an episode of NCIS and I immediately Googled it to find out what it was.  Seems I was not alone in wanting to find out more about this song.  Maybe it will inspire you to choose one or more words for 2014.

Song for the year—Nothing More by The Alternative Routes (Made specifically to raise money for Newtown Kindness

 

To be humble, to be kind.
It is the giving of the peace in your mind.
To a stranger, To a friend
To give in such a way that has no end.

We are Love
We are One
We are how we treat each other when the day is done.
We are Peace
We are War
We are how we treat each other and Nothing More

To be bold, to be brave.
It is the thinking that the heart can still be saved
And the darkness can come quick
The Dangers in the Anger and the hanging on to it.

We are Love
We are One
We are how we treat each other when the day is done.
We are Peace
We are War
We are how we treat each other and Nothing More

Tell me what it is that you see
A world that’s filled with endless possibilities?
Heroes don’t look they used to, they look like you do.

We are Love
We are One
We are how we treat each other when the day is done.
We are Peace
We are War
We are how we treat each other and Nothing More

 

Happy New Year to each one of you.

 

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  1. The Presents of Presence
    December 31, 2013 at 06:30 am

    Love Joy Peace are the 3 words that come to mind. This is a great post! I really like your 3 words too! Happy New Year to you!

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 06:33 am

      Great words for a great person! Those are fabulous words to focus on for the year. Happy New Year to you also!

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  2. Allison Spruill
    December 31, 2013 at 07:38 am

    Great idea and wonderful words! I also love the song lyrics. Tucking away for youth group.

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 07:58 am

      Aren’t the words simply wonderful? I fell in love with it when I heard it and immediately googled it. There is a really nice video the group did explaining what it was about and all which made it even sweeter!

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  3. Colleen McRoberts
    December 31, 2013 at 08:14 am

    Thank you. This is a beautiful post. I really like the song selection. In another dimension, I would have been planning music for worship and that would have been used along with Sean’s sermon the Sunday before Christmas.

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 12:45 pm

      Thanks so much, Colleen. I really appreciate it!

      Reply
  4. Minnesota Prairie Roots
    December 31, 2013 at 09:14 am

    Your words are always just right, whether three selected for 2014 or those spoken to a friend in need of encouragement and more. You are the best, Beth Ann. One of my greatest blessings in 2013 was connecting with you.

    The song lyrics are great, too, BTW.

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 12:44 pm

      Thank you. I agree that meeting you in real life has been a huge blessing this year! Very grateful.

      Reply
  5. Helen Brown
    December 31, 2013 at 09:55 am

    This is a good way to start a new year after listening to the words in the song and making a goal for the new year.

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 12:43 pm

      Isn’t it a great song?

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  6. My Odd Family
    December 31, 2013 at 09:56 am

    Perfect. Happy New Year’s Eve! ♥

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 12:43 pm

      Thanks!

      Reply
  7. Debbie
    December 31, 2013 at 03:03 pm

    Love your 3 words and a song idea — never really thought to do something like that. Last year, I formulated 5 goals (remind me NOT to try that again, ha!). Happy New Year’s Eve to you and your family!

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 04:46 pm

      5 goals seems too lofty for me!!! I am lucky to be able to remember the words. Katybeth suggested putting them on repeat on the Google calendar and that is a GREAT idea I am going to implement!!!

      Reply
  8. Rorybore
    December 31, 2013 at 03:33 pm

    I love this concept of choosing a word, or several for the year. I can never make up my mind – even though I always think everyone else comes up with the perfect word! ha
    But this year I have been thinking about Matter. In terms of focusing on the things that actually matter; but also, on a personal level: Just Trying to Matter. Or maybe I mean to reduce my matter — the ever going baby weight stuggle. 🙂
    I think that all needs more thought. LOL
    Beautiful song.
    Maybe ONE is a good word?

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 04:44 pm

      I love Matter! So many different attributes that it can have!!! One is also a great word!!! It is so difficult to pick them! Happy New Year!

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  9. bocafrau
    December 31, 2013 at 04:13 pm

    I like this idea a lot. I’m not one for resolutions because like you I’d feel bad if I couldn’t see it through! I do think that I could pick a word, or three to live by and will give it some thought! Happy New Year to you and yours and all the best for the coming year!!!! xoxo

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 04:43 pm

      Start with one!!! Make it simple and easy to remember and go from there. I think it is a great idea and have loved doing it the past 3 years. Happy New Year to you!

      Reply
  10. Carolee
    December 31, 2013 at 06:36 pm

    I’m still working on my three words. I didn’t do well last year, but I aim to change a few major things in my life this year, and my three words are a good start! Happy New Year!

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    1. Beth Ann
      December 31, 2013 at 06:39 pm

      Good for you! Every day is a new day and opportunity! Happy New Year!

      Reply
  11. pattisj
    December 31, 2013 at 10:13 pm

    Happy New Year! “Focus” will be one of my words.

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    1. Beth Ann
      January 01, 2014 at 08:41 am

      Focus is a perfect word!!!

      Reply
  12. poemsandponderings
    December 31, 2013 at 11:36 pm

    Happy New Year Beth Ann!
    In 2014:
    May you be blessed with wisdom,
    be free from pain
    and on your parade,
    be there not, a drop of rain..

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    1. Beth Ann
      January 01, 2014 at 08:42 am

      Thanks so much, Jake. You should have added no car accidents, too……Oh wait –that was still 2013. 🙂

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      1. poemsandponderings
        January 01, 2014 at 08:42 pm

        Huh? Car accident? Did I miss something? And are you and yours okay?

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        1. Beth Ann
          January 01, 2014 at 08:45 pm

          We are fine and dandy but yea— a little accident. Post tomorrow!

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          1. poemsandponderings
            January 01, 2014 at 09:24 pm

            Oh good thank God.

          2. Beth Ann
            January 02, 2014 at 06:34 am

            All is well!

  13. Val - Corn, Beans, Pigs & Kids
    January 01, 2014 at 08:29 am

    I think you chose great New Year words. One of my friend’s New Year resolution is actually to simply, simplify. I think everyone could use some simplifying in life.

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    1. Beth Ann
      January 01, 2014 at 08:43 am

      I know that I can definitely use some simplification. When we moved to Australia we cleansed a lot of “stuff” and it is time to redo that cleanse!

      Reply
  14. bmillergirl1
    January 01, 2014 at 09:04 am

    Oh Beth Ann – I love your words and your song! I hadn’t heard that song before but I just love it. Gonna need to do something with that! Thanks and blessings for the New Year!

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    1. Beth Ann
      January 01, 2014 at 03:52 pm

      Is it not perfect? The words are wonderful and the background of the song is perfect. Happy New Year!

      Reply
  15. benzeknees
    January 01, 2014 at 05:00 pm

    Do you do something creative to keep these words foremost in your mind? Like create plaques or something? Paint them on a wall?

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  16. 2014 – 3 words to live by | Mighty Inspiration
    January 01, 2014 at 05:50 pm

    […] I love when inspiration bounces around from one person to the next. It’s how the world changes really. Today I got just that.  My fellow blogger, Beth Ann shared her 2014 theme song and 3 words for the year. You can see her blog here: Beth Ann Chiles […]

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  17. Darlene
    January 01, 2014 at 08:48 pm

    Great words, great song.

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    1. Beth Ann
      January 02, 2014 at 06:35 am

      Thank you!

      Reply

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