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October 6, 2021

Making Memories

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Last week was a week to make memories.

On September 25th we celebrated the life of our mother, Helen M. Brown, with what I think was a beautiful service. One of her clergy friends delivered the message which was perfect. Another family friend sang the Lord’s Prayer. I did the Time of Remembrance and managed pretty well to get through what I had written.

After lunch the family, all 20. of us, traveled to Lakeside, Ohio where we had rented two large houses next to one another. We all did rapid Covid tests (all are vaccinated except the two great grands who are too young) and proceeded to have a somewhat normal time in our little pod of family.

To say that it was wonderful would be an understatement. It has been a very long 18 months or however long this has been going on. I have lost track. Feeling the freedom of being with our family, hugging one another, eating meals together, just being together in one of our favorite places was just what I needed.

I know my mom was smiling down on us. I know it.

Sunday we had a picnic in the park with friends and relived some of those childhood memories while introducing the ones who had never been to Lakeside to the wonderful place that it is. We took family pictures that night which I am very anxious to see once the photographer gets them edited.

Monday we all traveled to Ada, Ohio where my sister did a nice graveside service (it helps to have a minister in the family). We left my mother’s ashes next to my Daddy’s and closed that chapter.

It is the first time all 20 of us have been together. Ever. Theo met all of his family on the Brown side and was such a good little guy despite all the attention.

The family left bit by bit as the week went on with some having to get back to jobs and life outside It was bittersweet to see the cousins leave one by one but I was so grateful to have had the chance to have everyone together for the time that they could be there.

The last night the remaining ones walked to the dock for one final sunset viewing. The four siblings and three spouses enjoyed one final Lakeside sunset and we vowed to make this happen again next year in some form. My favorite picture from the week was a selfie that Chris took of us. The Fab Seven. It was the best one of the three so you can tell we are quite the photographic group. “Laugh”. Of course Mark is camera shy so we. took what we could get.

I snapped the following shot of him doing what he loves to do – fish.

Though the week is over I have plenty of new memories to store in my memory bank and am so grateful for the family that I have, for the way we get along and for the love that our parents gave us. I am blessed.

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  1. dawnkinster
    October 06, 2021 at 06:22 am

    Just wonderful. You gave me an idea on a way to get our family together. We have one family member who refuses to get vaccinated. Maybe she’d get tested.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      October 06, 2021 at 07:16 am

      We did rapid tests— easily available online and in pharmacies for not too much money. I think ours were $24 for two in a box. While they aren’t 100% accurate they are better than nothing. The PCR test is more accurate but takes a longer time. I had a nurse suggest it and it was so worth it to be together .

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  2. Virginia Pillsbury
    October 06, 2021 at 06:49 am

    Love hearing about this and the beautiful family time! What great memories!

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  3. Susi
    October 06, 2021 at 07:40 am

    So happy you were able to enjoy this time together and honor your mom and lay her to rest.
    ❤️

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  4. jena c. henry
    October 06, 2021 at 07:48 am

    A perfect way to celebrate your Mom’s life and to love your family. You had beautiful weather at Lakeside- I thought about you all week. Glad you could all spend time together and yes, try to keep it going in the future!

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      October 06, 2021 at 08:25 am

      It was the best weather we have ever had at Lakeside!!!

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  5. Elaine Omann
    October 06, 2021 at 07:59 am

    Wonderful family time and more memories to hold.

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  6. Carol Stoneham
    October 06, 2021 at 08:32 am

    Glad you had the time together, and at Lakeside! So sorry we missed the celebration of life. We were returning from Branson having spent time with Logan, Jenna and Leah. What a great time!! Family times are special.❤️

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      October 06, 2021 at 08:33 am

      I am so glad you had your family time as well. I shared the note Leslie wrote with the family and they were so appreciative.

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  7. Darlene
    October 06, 2021 at 08:47 am

    You are indeed blessed with such a wonderful family. At around the same time as you, we said a proper goodbye to our mom as well. I also felt she was smiling down on us. I believe that not being able to see each other for almost 2 years, has made us all appreciate each other more. How great that Theo got to meet his family. I bet they loved him.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      October 06, 2021 at 08:50 am

      He was so loved!! It was so sweet to see everyone interact!

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  8. Minnesota Prairie Roots
    October 06, 2021 at 10:24 am

    Oh, Beth Ann, I feel such thankfulness that you had this time together as a family. To remember and celebrate your mom. To reconnect. To laugh. To hug. Thank you for sharing this joy with us.

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  9. Shirley Matthews Dunn
    October 06, 2021 at 06:26 pm

    I am so glad you all had this special time as family. I have no doubt your parents were smiling down. What a blessing that Theo could meet your side of the family. .

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  10. Mama's Empty Nest
    October 07, 2021 at 12:42 pm

    Sounds like a wonderful time family time — just what I bet your parents would have wanted. I’m sure it was bittersweet but I’m so happy for you that you all were able to be together.

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