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July 2, 2015

Spotlight Versus Shadows

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Proverbs 25:6-7 (NKJV, The Message)
Do not exalt yourself in the presence of the king,
And do not stand in the place of the great;
For it is better that he say to you,
“Come up here,”
Than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince,
Whom your eyes have seen
* * *
Don’t work yourself into the spotlight;
don’t push your way into the place of prominence.
It’s better to be promoted to a place of honor
than face humiliation by being demoted.

When I read this passage today during my devotional time it hit me.  Smack dab in the face.  And hard.  I think that is what scripture does sometimes.  I can read the same passage at different times in my life and it affects me differently. Today, for whatever reason, this passage struck me as something that I needed to be paying attention to.

Perhaps it was because I had just had a conversation with my sister about someone else who was an extrovert who always seems to have the need to turn the conversation back to themselves.  Perhaps it was because that conversation left me feeling like I had been just looking for something to criticize about that person.  I really don’t know the reason why it made me stop and pause when I read it.  But I suspect it might be because God wanted me to take a look at myself a bit closer instead of focusing on someone else.

It is easy to get sucked into the “look at me, look at me” syndrome these days.  I am guilty of that more often than not.  I take selfies and post them.  I admit that it feels very nice when people give me praise and compliment me.  Sometimes it is difficult to keep things in perspective in a world where self promotion is a thing.

“Don’t work yourself into the spotlight.”.  Of course there are many different ways to interpret this passage but today these words were a bit of a reprimand.  Be humble.  Do things quietly. Don’t self promote to the point where you lose sight of who is God in your life.  No, change that to don’t self promote to the point where I lose sight of who is God in MY life.

Stay humble. Stay grounded. Be true to who God has created you to be.  The spotlight is a there but I don’t always need to be in it. Sometimes the shadows are the perfect place to be instead.

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  1. Carl D'Agostino
    July 02, 2015 at 06:04 am

    Much wisdom in this.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 02, 2015 at 06:31 am

      Thanks, Carl. I am happy you found wisdom. 🙂 Have a great day.

      Reply
  2. Dawn
    July 02, 2015 at 07:02 am

    I think with social media it’s easy to put yourself in the spotlight…and much of the time it’s harmless. But I get your point. Sometimes we are so busy posting our own goings on that we don’t notice when someone else could use some support.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 02, 2015 at 08:30 am

      Much of the time it is harmless—you are precisely right about that. But I can get sucked in and the compliments are so nice that sometimes I focus on that instead of the other things I should be focusing on. Thanks for stopping by today, Dawn! Means a lot!

      Reply
  3. Marla aka Crazy Mom
    July 02, 2015 at 07:35 am

    Great post! It is hard to find balance – we are told to promote ourselves/our products, etc. Hard to argue with the Bible, though. 😉

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 02, 2015 at 08:29 am

      It is a balance that is not always easy for me to find. I like all of the social media stuff, obviously, but then it can take over and put the emphasis on ME instead of HIM. Thanks for stopping by today.

      Reply
  4. Mama's Empty Nest
    July 02, 2015 at 08:19 am

    Isn’t that just like God? He always reminds me exactly of the thing I need to examine about myself through scripture. This passage is a good one for all of us believers who put ourselves ‘out there’ in the ‘spotlight’ of social media whether its blogging, facebook, twitter…what ever. Thank you for reminding me of this today. God just gives us a strong reality check right when we need it…if we listen to Him and His Word.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 02, 2015 at 08:27 am

      Just what I think as well–just like God to slap me in the face when I need it. I thought it was just me that that happened to. Glad this made you think a bit today. Hope you have a fabulous day!

      Reply
  5. Minnesota Prairie Roots
    July 02, 2015 at 08:39 am

    I agree that at different times in your life, Scripture takes on different meaning.

    I’ve never thought of you as a “look at me” type of person. You are one of the most caring individuals I know.

    This is another entry for your forthcoming devotional book.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 13, 2015 at 07:50 am

      It is one of those ones that hit me hard so that means I need to take notice. It is so easy for me to point fingers and ignore the fact that the scripture is speaking to ME.

      Reply
  6. Helen Brown
    July 02, 2015 at 08:49 am

    We just need to do our best even though it may put us in the spotlight.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 13, 2015 at 07:51 am

      Doing our best is exactly what we all need to try to be doing. It is not always easy though.

      Reply
  7. Thread crazy
    July 02, 2015 at 08:58 am

    It’s been awhile but I’ve been checking in on you from time to time! Great post – I couldn’t agree with you more. We have an awesome God and sometimes he has to somewhat hit us smack in the face to get our attention. All of us want recognition at times and yes, social media seems to dominate the scene these days. If we continue to put God first in our lives, the rest will all fall into place, including social media. At least that’s my take on it. You are doing great Beth Ann – enjoyed the post.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 13, 2015 at 07:52 am

      Thanks for stopping by! Glad you enjoyed the post. Sometimes the posts that take the least amount of time are the ones that are the best ones here. I hardly had to even think about this one because it just wrote itself because it was so much on my mind. Isn’t that just how it is sometime. Great to see you again.

      Reply
  8. Gibber
    July 02, 2015 at 11:30 am

    It’s a love/hate thing sometimes when scripture does that eh?. 🙂

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 13, 2015 at 07:53 am

      Yes! I really had to stop and take a bit of time to process why this verse hit me so hard.

      Reply
      1. Gibber
        July 13, 2015 at 10:37 am

        I totally get that.

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  9. Sara Broers
    July 02, 2015 at 12:42 pm

    Great post, as always!

    Reply
    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 02, 2015 at 12:43 pm

      Thanks, Sara.

      Reply
  10. donnahup
    July 02, 2015 at 01:28 pm

    This is great advice. I hope I wasn’t the extrovert you were referring too (wait, did I just bring that back to me?) … Seriously though, this is one I need to remember too. I blame it on getting excited about things, but I need to be a better listener.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 02, 2015 at 02:44 pm

      I am a great talker but I also have learned how important it is to listen and truly listen to others. That is one thing that I try hard to cultivate because there are so many people out there in our world who really need to just have someone listen to them. I am grateful that God gifted me with that talent.

      Reply
  11. Val - Corn, Beans, Pigs and Kids
    July 03, 2015 at 04:41 pm

    This is a great passage for all of us to remember. Thanks for sharing your reflection.

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    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 06, 2015 at 06:56 am

      It made me stop and think twice, that is for sure. Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  12. pattisj
    July 17, 2015 at 01:30 am

    We all need to heed those teachable moments. Thanks for sharing.

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  13. Priscilla King
    July 20, 2015 at 12:21 pm

    Good thoughts.

    Reply
    1. Beth Ann Chiles
      July 21, 2015 at 11:32 am

      Thanks, Priscilla!

      Reply

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